Vanessa Valadez (28), Andy Klingensmith (24) Chicago, IL
A current transplant to Chicago, Andy came across Vanessa at a concert summer that is last. Vanessa instantly indicated her long-time desire to have a relationship that is open and after 3 months together, the 2 started earnestly checking out non-monogamy.
Citing mental health as a huge determining factor in her choice to follow non-monogamy, Vanessa describes that she had been insecure and jealous inside her previous, monogamous relationships, though she had been interested in learning being available. In belated 2017, she states she started using antidepressants and became a person that is”entirely different one sans insecurity and envy, in addition to possessing of the “larger, much much deeper knowledge of the things I desired.” Later, she decided that she had been prepared to pursue non-monogamy something which she claims she clarified to Andy once they met up the next summer time. Continue reading